TRUST ISSUES : A FIRE ALARM

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Trust is defined as placing your confidence in someone. I have been thinking about trust a lot. Trust is always earned and not taken from someone. I am so lucky in my life to have incredible people who I trust with my life ( who know exactly who they are, and I know you are reading this so hi ! ).

As a person I really struggle to trust people because of some past friendships ( which I will not be going into ) and I ‘ve been thinking a lot that, our trust issues sometimes end up hurting our relationships with one we love the most.

I think we get this feeling of “I will loose this person, they will leave” and that’s our own unhealed wounds giving a warning sign and all the alarms going off like ” hey ! remember what happened when the last time you trusted ? “

It’s that situation where you let someone in and they know what buttons to push to hurt you, and that can leave phantom pain. I think to some extent that is beneficial to help us from getting hurt again, but I think it is okay to trust someone who has shown trust in you and showed you love.

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