In this era of social media, trends are constantly emerging, encompassing fashion, lifestyle, diets, and more. Nowadays, people are more influenced by social media than ever before. It has become so common that instead of exchanging phone numbers, people often ask for Instagram IDs when they make new friends or develop a crush.
One trend I’ve noticed is the glamorization of being in your own world. People often take days to respond to texts just to seem busy or to create the impression that their lives are exciting. This is one of the major reasons why many people turn off their read receipts. Don’t get me wrong, I have mine turned off too, and it’s great. However, I think this trend of glamorizing not responding to texts and promoting the idea that you shouldn’t need anyone has its limits.
We shouldn’t completely isolate ourselves and ignore everyone. Believe me, I do it too, but I’ve learned that it’s important to consider the other person. When someone texts you “Hi” or “How are you?”, it’s an expression of care, even if it’s just a little. My point is that we shouldn’t completely shut everyone out and endure our struggles alone. Human beings are inherently social creatures; we seek companionship and connection. That’s why we get into relationships—to have someone who cares for us and loves us.
Not responding to texts or picking up calls in the name of self-love is not truly self-love. Friendships require effort. Even if you’re not a natural texter, you need to make an effort to communicate if you want the friendship to last or if you care about the person.
In conclusion, while it’s okay to prioritize yourself and take breaks but simultaneously make efforts and maintain connections that care for us and love us.
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